SDM: Sweet & Discreet Meet

In-app purchases
3.6
1.2K reviews
500K+
Downloads
Content rating
Mature 17+
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About this app

SDM - Find genuine connections in your city! Join our exclusive dating community, with more than 9 million like-minded members.

SDM is an exclusive dating app designed to help elite and attractive singles find love, passion, and adventure in life. We provide a fun and welcoming dating community based on respect and inclusion for our members to explore! Whether you're looking to meet new friends, chat with strangers, expand your mind and experiences, or find a luxury lifestyle, SDM dating app is your perfect choice.

Connect and vibe on multiple levels.

SDM dating app provides an easy way to meet new people, find dates, and explore possibilities and opportunities you've ever wanted. Everyone here is looking for genuine relationships, friendships, and true love. You can find educated people who can broaden your horizons with wisdom, insight, and life experience. You can also meet fun, outgoing, respectful singles with high standards and clear boundaries. At SDM, we value genuine connections and we work hard to bring people together who will appreciate and respect each other. We believe that strong relationships start with mutual understanding and common ground. With that in mind, we create a safe and supportive environment where you can get to know someone before taking things to the next level.

Discover our amazing features

- Search for local singles with advanced filters
- Browse thousands of local profiles
- Send unlimited free winks to break the ice
- Check others' latest activities
- Chat with new friends anonymously
- Reply to messages from others for free
- Match with verified members

SDM makes dating easier and safer

SDM dating app is popular all over the world. Whether you are from the United States, the United Kingdom, Canada, Australia, Europe, Asia, or other places in the world, you can find your ideal match on SDM. Our mission is to make dating in your city as easy, fun, and safe as it can be! Protecting your security and privacy is our top priority. We offer free profile verification to ensure you're dating a real person. Our smart matching system delivers compatible partner suggestions in line with your personal search preferences, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

So, what are you waiting for? Download our exclusive dating app and start connecting with quality singles from all over the world. With SDM dating app, you’re never alone!

Your privacy is always important to us. To view our Privacy Policy and Terms, please visit the following links:
Privacy Policy: https://www.sdm.dating/privacy.html
Terms of use: https://www.sdm.dating/terms.html
If you have any problems or suggestions, feel free to contact us at support@sdm.dating.
Updated on
Oct 24, 2025

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region, and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
No data shared with third parties
Learn more about how developers declare sharing
This app may collect these data types
Location, Personal info and 4 others
Data is encrypted in transit
You can request that data be deleted

Ratings and reviews

3.6
1.18K reviews
Kaela Davis
June 20, 2025
you can literally set up an in depth bio but then have to spend a minimum of $35 per month, or $75 for 3 months just to use the app. This information needs to be made available before spending all your time getting everything set up. I expected some premium service for certain things but not just to use the app in general. extremely disappointed.
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SDM Lifestyle
June 23, 2025
We appreciate your feedback. Our aim is to provide a quality experience. While some features are premium, they support ongoing app development. We're working on enhancing the free features for a better balance. Thanks for your understanding!
Christopher Johnson
November 10, 2022
This is a lazily designed app. You can't change the upper limit of your age range, it will stay at 99. Can't add photos from your photo gallery; only accepts camera. Deleting account doesn't work. I have a free account but I somehow got 28 likes with only 3 profile views so there is a very high chance of this app being mostly fake profiles. I was about to spend $50 for 1 month but I changed my mind. Don't believe the fake reviews.
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Jon Stanford
September 19, 2025
Might be the only dating app in existence that charges to message a mutual match. Worse still, even if you pay to be able to send the message unless the other party has paid, they wont be able to read your message. As that example clear shows, it's just a poorly executed scam site with low user counts ( ghee i wonder why ) claiming to be premium
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SDM Lifestyle
September 22, 2025
We’re sorry for your frustration. Messaging is a premium feature to ensure safety and quality interactions. We’ll share your feedback with our team. Please reach out at support@sdm.dating so we can review your concerns directly.

What’s new

We pride ourselves on providing a user experience that is fluid and efficient. We frequently update our app to make sure you can participate in high quality dating.
Got feedback? We'd love to hear it. We consider all feedback to provide the best possible dating app. We appreciate your ongoing support.